Decluttering, Decluttering list of items, Rhonda Hetzel

Less is more

Around six months ago I also become aware that my chaotic approach to finances, meant I had very little idea where my money was going, and I was slowly sliding into debt. It took a great deal of courage to finally face my situation and it was worse than I imagined, but it felt liberating to be in control. It wasn’t until I was out shopping one day and I realised that I could buy something if I wanted it, without the huge stack of guilt on my shoulders about buying – it was wonderful to know that I had money to pay for it, rather than hoping.

I read Julia Camerons – Prosperous Heart,

Prosperous Heart

She was very open and honest about her journey, it made me feel that I was not the only one! that was a huge weight off my shoulders.

The book is very good, it gives workable steps so that I felt I was moving forward. She discusses the concept of getting the right payment for artistic endeavour and helps you to evaluate your spending ‘personality traits’.

One of the big revelations to me was that I could not afford the ‘bigger things’ I desired, so instead I was compensating by purchasing lots of little things, especially when it was ‘charity’ shops. Yet, if I stopped these purchases and gave myself time to consider what I really wanted, and why I wanted things, I could actually afford these ‘bigger’ things. I felt as if everything was within my reach, more importantly I began to feel blessed. I also used affirmations to enforce the belief that the universe provided for all my needs and wants.

The first month was really tight, I had overspent the month before so had to manage on a tiny budget but I was determined to do so. Instead of focussing on the ‘lack’ I began to pay attention to what I had.

I live in a fair size two bedroom flat and when I moved in I was creating a new home having been living with friends in the interim. There was a lot of space, but there were a lot of boxes it took me six months before I finally emptied the last box. In the three years I have lived here, my magpie tendencies has meant my little home has become full of ‘suff’.

lots of stuff

I spent a Sunday afternoon going through my larder, my freezer and my fridge – as I made my list I began to realise that I had a great deal of food and could manage to feed myself for quite some time without needing to do a big shop. I also realised that I was still in the habit of buying for a family even though I lived on my own.

When I began to look around my home all the stuff was making things difficult, to get a saucepan out of the cupboard I had to remove other pans, cooking pots everything in my home was like that. I began to question why I had so many pans when I only really used one or two. Since then I have been slowly, systematically, working my way through my cupboards and bookshelves – considering if I really need it. Once I realised just how valuable my space was, I began to make decisions about wether or not something deserved a limited resource.

glass and china

I had a whole glass cabinet full of so many glasses it was difficult to find the right one. I ended up taking two huge boxes to a local Charity shop. Having room to display the items that pleased me the most gave me immense satisfaction.

My bookshelves were full of books that I had read and would not likely read again, so I took those away and now I buy kindle books because they don’t take up any room.

Its a slow process, one that I do when I feel the moment strikes, I’ll do a shelf – or a cupboard and then rest. If you do too much its overwhelming.

I had three cake stands so I listed a glass cake stand on a Facebook group, offering it for free, and spoke to a fabulous lady miles away who was very much looking forward to owning one. She was arranging for it to be picked up so after finding a big enough box I realised that I could wrap it up in some fabric – I no longer wanted rather than bubble wrap. (We both enjoyed sewing!) and I also found a three tier cake stand that was also a duplicate and that also fitted in the box. It gave me a great deal of pleasure to be able to give things away, knowing that they would be valued and appreciated.

I have been reading around this subject and have found some other wonderful inspiration that has helped me enormously.

The simple Life

This is a wonderful book, Rhonda creates a warm cosiness about her lifestyle, contentment drips off the page. It made me yearn to have chickens and a veg patch. She has links in the ebook to her online community which is full of more great advice and like minded folks.

There are some very good questions that help you to re-evaluate what is important.

Well worth a read you can get it on amazon for as little as 60p.


It seems that clutter is endemic according to the BBC and it is affecting our health. I think that there is more to it than merely space, its stressful when you have to unpack a cupboard to get something out, or that you cannot fit all your items in your cupboards. I believe it affects our energy flow as well, living in a cluttered space does not give us the ‘white space’ to relax in.

I would be interested to hear what you think!

In the meantime I shall create a list of things that I have given away.

ttfn x

So far:

2 boxes of glassware

1 glass cake stand

1 Three tier china cake stand

1 Vax upright hoover

A set of six willow pattern dinner plates and bowls

A potato ricer

Two carrier bags of reading books

heart and home

And the winner is….

it deserves love
it deserves love

My experience with bicarbonate of soda/vinegar has been so successful that I wondered if there are other areas that could benefit from old fashioned methods rather than expensive branded ones.

The washing powder market is huge, the variation enormous, liquid, powder, tablets, sachets that dissolve in the drum, together with washing machine maintenance and anti bacterials that have created fears that never existed a few years ago.

I am growing sceptic by the day, we are bombarded with so much information that seemingly offers solutions and opportunities, but in reality what they are after is our hard earned cash. This market is very competitive because it reaps huge rewards, there is a huge mark up.

So with that in mind I thought I would give laundry consumables some experimentation. I was advised by the website, DIY Natural, (great source of information!) …. to grate an ordinary bar of soap, mix it with some soda and use it as a washing soda.

While I am on the subject of washing soda, this is an excellent cleaner for your machine, you can purchase a big box for around a pound but Calgon, (which I strongly suspect is simply a branded variety) costs lots more than that.
The other beauty of washing soda, is that it reduces the amount of detergent required to wash your clothes, a double saving! Especially if you live in a chalky area as I do in Sussex. Imagine money to buy more crafting books!

Love Vinegar

Back to the experiment…

The soap powder did its job, although my towel was a bit stained it did not really come out in the wash so I deemed my usual powder worth the cost. I use powder because it is the cheapest way to buy it, and it only takes a few moments in a cup of water to dissolve it before putting it into the washing machine dispenser.

As for the conditioner… the replacement fabric conditioner was vinegar with a little essential oils. oh my, how soft everything was! My towel was very soft, disappointingly the essential oils had virtually disappeared, but I am converted. The vinegar not just softens clothes but also cuts the excess soap from the machine another double bonus! As that extends the life of your washing machine.

Now as to the problem of the build up of bacteria, how inventive these manufacturers are! They have been telling us to turn down the temperature on our washing machines, and I agree it is better for the environment if we use less energy, but it does mean that bacteria can actually thrive in the nice warm, wet environment. It means that your machine will begin to smell, and worse your clean clothes will too! even after washing!

So they come up with a solution to a problem that they created – add more expensive chemicals! NO!

Temperature is Key!
Temperature is Key!

It’s simply a case of following in the wise footsteps of generations of women before us, use high temperatures to kill bacteria. Bacteria thrive in temperatures from 5 – 65 degrees, if you are washing all your clothes at around 40 degrees, then you are creating a wonderful environment for them to thrive.

Isn’t a boil wash environmentally unfriendly? Not really, you don’t have to boil wash everything, but it’s a good idea to use high temperatures for babies, older people and especially when you have been ill. I usually boil wash my bedding once a week, including the mattress protector. That is enough to kill off the residing bacteria in my machine without resorting to harmful chemicals that remain in the clothing and is absorbed through the skin when I wear them. Using more chemicals to kill off bacteria is not environmentally friendly at all. Be aware that products sold for home use is not as restricted as commercial products and can be quite harmful.

Did I also mention that vinegar has natural antibacterial qualities? Also, a litre costs just over a pound, more money for fabric!

So lets have a drum roll for old fashioned wisdom and the humble vinegar.

It deserves a lot more love
It deserves a lot more love